Friendship: The Sixth Essence…by Robert M. Katzman
February 23, 2012
(Written on a rush hour train, on the way to seeing my brain surgeon for the first time, eight years after my two operations. He was fine.)
Friendship
Requires
Paying attention
And:
Concern
Involvement
Exhilaration
Risk
Disappointment
Friendship
is an
Intertwining
of
Mutual
Passion & Pleasures:
Sports
Movies
Coffee
Standing on the corner,
Watching
Friends can be Married
Or not
Lovers can be Friends
Or not
Friendship
is the
“Other”
Possibility
Sharing
Sensuality
Without
Sexuality
Friendship
is
Heightened
Reality
Unspoken
Communication
Feeling
Simpatico
to a
Common Reality
Remembrance
of
Tragedy
Without
Needing
the
Reminding
A love of:
Food
Wine
Travel
Laughter
Friendship
Is:
Politics
But
not
Politicians
Who
Pretend
They have
a
Million
“Friends”
Until
They
Lose an Election
Friendship
Doesn’t
Demand
Fidelity:
Me and no one else BUT me!
Tyranny & Control
aren’t
Friendship
Friendship
is
Selective
Whom you
Instinctively
Call
When
Your
World
Disintegrates
When the Police come
When you’re fired
When your car crashes
When your Lover leaves
When your Lover dies
Friendship
Is
Inconvenient
Friendship
is
Shared
Suffering
Can’t be bought
Can’t be sold
Has no intrinsic value
Can’t be measured
Friendship
Offers
Spiritual
Relaxation
a
Lowering
of
Guards
an
Invitation
to
Emotional
Intimacy
Possibly…
Confessions
of
Follies past
To
Some
Receiving
such
Trust
is
a
Bond of Honor
To
Others
a
Dagger
of
Possibilities
The
Only
Restraint
Between the Two
is
One
Sees
Opportunity
The Other
Sees
No
Opportunity
at
All
The Difference
is
an
Ocean
of
Character
Whatever
Compels
Us
to
Accept
the
Risk?
Perhaps
the
Innate
Compulsion
Simply
to
be
Known
Known
Before
We
Die
The Wealthy
Never
Know
Who
is
Truly
Their friend
The
unexpected
cost
of
“No Worries”
The Poor
Huddle
Together
So much in common
So little to share
The
Intersection
Comes
When it comes
When
One
Chooses
to
Aid
the
Other
In ways
Uncountable
Even then
No one really knows
For sure
The score
Between the Classes
Money poisons everything
Unmeasurable
Friends share success
Friends don’t trade up
Friends cheer each other’s prosperity
Friends don’t forget
Friends don’t disappear
Friends find Time
&
Friends find Time
&
Friends find Time
If the
Universe
Chooses
To make me
Rich
My Friends
My real Friends
Will
Know:
Fixing
their
Broken Things-
Fetching
their
Forgotten Dreams-
Landing
Them
In their
Faraway Places-
Why should I care?
If you have to ask
You will never understand
Can you give me change for a smile?
Me?
I
Can’t
Wait!
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